Then he kicked her out when he found a more interesting woman. “I saw the break-up coming but Nike was in love with the lout. When he kicked her out, she had nowhere to go and I suggested she moved her things and children to our boy’s quarters pending when she would find alternate accommodation. She had a good job and her husband had promised to help towards the finances of re-setting her and their children. So, I agreed for her to move in. ‘As long as she doesn’t get under our feet,’ my husband growled when I sort his consent. ‘She’s a bit too boisterous for my liking.
“She was a very ‘good house guest and my children took her kids in their wings. She was always cooking mouth-watering dishes that I seldom had time to prepare, on top of which she managed to look good most of the time. In fairness to her, she made me take more care of my appearance at home as Martin, my husband seemed to relish the attention of two women. Once in a while, Nike spent the evening with us until one day, I noticed Martin sitting with her on the sofa. As the evening wore-on, I noticed Martin sitting far, too close to her. I didn’t take it seriously. He was just playing, so I rolled my eyes and hoped she wasn’t getting the wrong message. A few days later, she was openly flirting with him, telling me how lucky I was to have such a lovely man: compared to the thug she married.
“She was getting too fresh, but short of showing uncalled for jealousy, I had no way of putting an end to her flirting with my husband. I was now witnessing new side of Nike. Had I been wise to invite her to my matrimonial home?
The next time I asked how her house-hunting was going, she said a few estate agents were looking and she should have good news soon. Unfortunately, I had to go to the hospital for an operation to remove my ruptured appendix but Nike told me not to worry, she would look after my family. They all came
to visit at the hospital and Nike was the one who actually brought me home as she said it was easier for her to take time off work than for Martin.
“When we arrived home, I took a quick look around. I went into our bedroom with my small suitcase and pulled back the top sheet, I stared at the sheet on the bed then leaned closer. It wasn’t only ruffled on Martin’s side, but on mine also. My pillow was dented from someone’s head. It was obvious that
they forgot to make up the bed that morning. I was livid. I charged into the living room, glared at Nike and yelIed: ‘How could you sleep with my husband after all I did for you? And with me ill in the hospital?’ She looked at the floor. ‘’I gave you and your children a roof over your heads in my home when your husband threw you out so you could have somewhere to sleep. And you certainly did. With my husband!’
“She was silent for a while, pretending to look contrite before blurting out that: ‘I didn’t want to do it, but your husband made me.’ I asked her to pack her things immediately and leave, but she started weeping profusely. When Martin came home and I told him I knew, he confessed it was Nike who made a play for him. ‘She told me she loved me,he said. ‘It just happen.’ When I told him I’d asked her to move out, he said I shouldn’t be hasty. That I should let her find a place to move to first, so that tongues wouldn’t start wagging. “I was unsure of what to do. On the other hand, I didn’t want the tramp near my family. On the other, why should it be me that would suffer when I hadn’t done anything wrong? How could I keep this woman I’d brought into my home away from my husband? That evening I told Nike that she had four weeks to leave. In the interim, she should stay away from my family. She agreed, pleading with me again to forgive her. I watched her like a hawk afterwards. She moved before the four weeks I gave her was up and I heaved a sigh of relief. “Martin had already bounced back from his remorseful self. Life was back to normal. But for only a while. One of the estate agents Nike used to get her flat called at the house to tell me the cheque my husband issued to cover the legal fees bounced. I wasn’t really surprised. I kind of suspected that, now they weren’t under my nose.
“Martin and Nike might carry on their disgusting affair behind my back. But for him to be financially responsible for her new flat was just too much for me.
“Before Martin came home, I went to a very close magistrate friend of mine who always gives me sound advice. ‘I deal with cases like yours all of the time,’ she told me; ‘Whatever you do, don’t give the impresion you want to move out of your matrimonial home. You have your children to consider. But if you think since she was your junior in school and, was like your slave then, you could cow her into leaving your husband alone, you can’t. It would be interesting to know why her husband really kicked her out. In the mean time hang on to your marriage.”
“I gave Martin his bounced cheque back and he was jabbering away about how she begged for a loan and, since he wanted her out of the house at all costs, he obliged. I said
nothing. The next week, I went to see her husband and told him what happened. He felt sorry for me. ‘Just ignore her,’he advised,’ she would soon show her true colour. When we were married, she was sleeping with a co-tenant for years, and cooking for him until he got married.
After he did, she wanted to continue but the wife wouldn’t have any of it. It wasn’t until things got physical and the wife tore Nike’s clothes to shreds that I had an inkling of what was going on. The rest of the tenants knew and were laughing behind my back. I was violent with her alright, but it was because of her constant philandering. I bet right now, you too would ‘give anything to beat her up if you could get away with it!’
Ask no questions, they say, and you’ll be told no lies. I’ve carried on as before and I have no way of knowing if the affair is still on and I don’t intend to find out. When you hear of cases of men who sleep with close relations and friends of the wives, and sometimes get them pregnant, you think it can never happen to you. Why? Because you’re such a good judge of character? Husbands would stray if they’re meant to. But you kick yourself when you find out you brought poison into your own home.